Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco form a couple that captures attention not only for their individual talents but also for the chemistry that spills over into both their personal and professional lives. With the release of their collaborative album “I Said I Love You First” this Friday, March 21, the duo offers the public an intimate look into their love story, which began in July 2023 and culminated grew into an engagement announced in December 2024. In a recent Spotify interview for the “Countdown To” series, the couple reminisced about standout moments from the early days of their relationship, such as arriving on time to a Taylor Swift party, an episode that brought laughter and a hint of embarrassment to the singer. This moment, combined with other shared details, illustrates how their bond evolved naturally, now translated into 14 tracks blending their past, present, and future as artists.
The album’s creation, which started as an extension of the couple’s morning conversations, reflects the authenticity they aimed to infuse into the project. Gomez, who had been on a musical hiatus since releasing “Rare” in 2020 and the EP “Revelación” in 2021, found in Blanco a partner who helped her rediscover her artistic voice. While driving around Los Angeles in a retro convertible during the interview, they explained how music became a way to express emotions ranging from the shyness of their first dates to the certainty of a lasting commitment.
Selena Gomez e Benny Blanco se unem no lançamento de I Said I Love You First, novo álbum de estúdio da cantora. pic.twitter.com/YRRMFnbEVx
— SB (@SeriesBrasil) March 21, 2025
The engagement, celebrated with a marquise diamond ring specially designed by Blanco, became a milestone that lit up social media, with support from friends like Taylor Swift, who jokingly offered to be the “flower girl” at their wedding. The union of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, already seen as solid by those close to them, now gains a new layer with this joint musical project, set to captivate fans worldwide.
Early days of a discreet romance
Gomez and Blanco weren’t always in the spotlight as a couple. In the initial months of dating, they chose to keep their relationship under wraps. One instance was at Taylor Swift’s party after an awards show, where they arrived among the first guests, something Gomez called “mortifying” for not adhering to the celebrity norm of fashionably late arrivals. Blanco, with his signature humor, likened his fiancée’s punctuality to that of a mother showing up to an event, highlighting the contrast between their early discretion and current openness.
The longstanding friendship between Gomez and Swift, dating back to 2008 when both dated Jonas Brothers members, adds a special touch to these stories. At that party, few knew they were together, prompting them to act cautiously, almost as if still figuring out how to navigate public life as a couple. Gomez described the moment as both cute and awkward, a reflection of the genuine nature of their journey.
From friendship to music: crafting “I Said I Love You First”
The shift from a personal relationship to an artistic collaboration wasn’t planned from the start. Gomez had been grappling with musical uncertainty, unsure of her next step after years away from full projects. It was Blanco who, listening to her morning confessions, began turning those talks into lyrics and melodies. The result is a 14-track album capturing the essence of their life together, from initial fears to the confidence of a shared future.
Their creative process, described by Blanco as organic, often began with him jotting down ideas as Gomez shared her feelings. Then, in the studio, those emotions came alive in songs like “Scared of Loving You” and “Sunset Blvd.” The latter pays homage to the site of their first date, a Los Angeles restaurant they later revisited to recreate a shrimp curry dish in a romantic moment shared online. Gomez credits Blanco with helping her play freely with lyrics, a highlight of the project that balances vulnerability and boldness.
For Blanco, the album is more than a collection of songs; it’s a personal diary that happens to be heard by the world. He stressed there were no initial commercial expectations, just a desire to create something meaningful for them as a couple. The inclusion of artists like Gracie Abrams in “Call Me When You Break Up” adds further depth, bringing freshness and variety to the narrative.
Timeline of an eagerly awaited release
The road to “I Said I Love You First” featured events that kept fans on edge. Here’s a rundown of key milestones:
- July 2023: Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco start dating, initially keeping it private.
- December 2024: The couple announces their engagement, with Gomez showcasing a marquise diamond ring and earning congrats from Taylor Swift.
- March 2025: Singles like “Scared of Loving You,” “Call Me When You Break Up,” and “Sunset Blvd” drop, paired with videos highlighting their chemistry.
- March 19: Gomez and Blanco make a surprise appearance in New York at a “Spring Breakers” screening, debuting “Bluest Flame.”
- March 21: The full album hits the public, marking the official launch of their collaboration.
This timeline showcases the care put into building the project, from the relationship’s early steps to delivering a work blending music and emotion.
Fan-favorite details
As the album takes shape, fans have reveled in the little moments Gomez and Blanco share about their bond. Recreating the shrimp curry dish with chef Jazz at Jitlada in Los Angeles, for instance, warmed followers’ hearts. Posted online, the video shows Gomez beaming as she tastes the food, with Blanco by her side, reinforcing how their love thrives in simple, genuine moments.
Taylor Swift’s comment on the engagement post, nearing two million likes, was another highlight. Her playful offer to be the flower girl not only underscores their friendship but also stokes curiosity about the yet-unscheduled wedding. Blanco, meanwhile, revealed in an interview that their first kiss was pivotal, a moment when he felt Gomez would be the mother of his children, melting romantic fans.
Wedding plans on hold for now
Despite the engagement buzz in December 2024, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco aren’t rushing to the altar. In a Rolling Stone interview days before the album’s release, they said they’re savoring the present, still enchanted by the newness of their commitment. Blanco teased that Gomez reimagines their wedding daily, but both prefer taking things “one day at a time,” focusing now on “I Said I Love You First.”
Choosing to delay plans reflects their priority on the musical project. Gomez, who’d dreamed of a marquise diamond ring since “Good for You” in 2015, said she poured her engagement joy into the album, turning happiness into art. Blanco admitted he’s still amazed at how fast their bond grew, feeling the engagement happened both yesterday and 20 years ago.
Standout moments to remember
Certain points in Gomez and Blanco’s journey stand out. Here are the most memorable, per recent accounts:
- Their first kiss, which Blanco called his life’s best decision, feeling Gomez’s heart race.
- Taylor Swift’s party, where they acted like shy partners amid few who knew of their romance.
- The ring delivery, a marquise diamond Gomez proudly flaunted online.
- The collab with Gracie Abrams, who praised working with them as “a forever yes.”
These snippets show how their relationship intertwines with the music they now share globally.
A couple in perfect harmony
The chemistry between Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco extends beyond the studio and social media. During Spotify’s “Countdown To,” they traded light jabs while driving in Los Angeles, Blanco chuckling at his fiancée’s extreme punctuality and Gomez recalling their shy early outings. This dynamic, blending humor and closeness, is part of what makes them so beloved.
“I Said I Love You First” arrives as a mirror of that harmony, with lyrics exploring love’s fears and celebrating an eternal bond. For Gomez, working with Blanco rekindled her musical spark, something she couldn’t do alone after years away. Blanco sees the project as a gift that, by chance, they’re sharing with fans, without losing its core as something made for themselves.
A musical milestone rooted in love
The release of “I Said I Love You First” marks a significant chapter for both Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, blending their personal milestones with a professional triumph. For Gomez, it’s a return to music after a period of self-reflection and selective acting roles, including her acclaimed work in “Only Murders in the Building.” The album’s 14 tracks offer a mix of pop sensibilities and raw emotion, a testament to how Blanco’s production expertise complements her vocal strengths. Their decision to preview “Bluest Flame” at a New York screening of “Spring Breakers” on March 19 tied Gomez’s past cinematic ventures to her present musical evolution, delighting longtime fans.
Blanco, a seasoned producer known for hits with artists like Justin Bieber and Rihanna, brings a fresh perspective to this project by stepping into the spotlight alongside Gomez. His playful yet heartfelt approach shines through in tracks like “Sunset Blvd,” where the sultry music video amplifies the song’s romantic undertones. The couple’s ability to weave their real-life experiences into the album—such as the nervous excitement of early dates or the comfort of a shared meal—grounds the music in a way that feels both relatable and aspirational.
As they gear up for the album’s debut, Gomez and Blanco remain focused on the journey rather than the destination. Their story, now etched in song, resonates as a celebration of love’s unpredictability, proving that sometimes the best art comes from life’s unscripted moments.

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco form a couple that captures attention not only for their individual talents but also for the chemistry that spills over into both their personal and professional lives. With the release of their collaborative album “I Said I Love You First” this Friday, March 21, the duo offers the public an intimate look into their love story, which began in July 2023 and culminated grew into an engagement announced in December 2024. In a recent Spotify interview for the “Countdown To” series, the couple reminisced about standout moments from the early days of their relationship, such as arriving on time to a Taylor Swift party, an episode that brought laughter and a hint of embarrassment to the singer. This moment, combined with other shared details, illustrates how their bond evolved naturally, now translated into 14 tracks blending their past, present, and future as artists.
The album’s creation, which started as an extension of the couple’s morning conversations, reflects the authenticity they aimed to infuse into the project. Gomez, who had been on a musical hiatus since releasing “Rare” in 2020 and the EP “Revelación” in 2021, found in Blanco a partner who helped her rediscover her artistic voice. While driving around Los Angeles in a retro convertible during the interview, they explained how music became a way to express emotions ranging from the shyness of their first dates to the certainty of a lasting commitment.
Selena Gomez e Benny Blanco se unem no lançamento de I Said I Love You First, novo álbum de estúdio da cantora. pic.twitter.com/YRRMFnbEVx
— SB (@SeriesBrasil) March 21, 2025
The engagement, celebrated with a marquise diamond ring specially designed by Blanco, became a milestone that lit up social media, with support from friends like Taylor Swift, who jokingly offered to be the “flower girl” at their wedding. The union of Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, already seen as solid by those close to them, now gains a new layer with this joint musical project, set to captivate fans worldwide.
Early days of a discreet romance
Gomez and Blanco weren’t always in the spotlight as a couple. In the initial months of dating, they chose to keep their relationship under wraps. One instance was at Taylor Swift’s party after an awards show, where they arrived among the first guests, something Gomez called “mortifying” for not adhering to the celebrity norm of fashionably late arrivals. Blanco, with his signature humor, likened his fiancée’s punctuality to that of a mother showing up to an event, highlighting the contrast between their early discretion and current openness.
The longstanding friendship between Gomez and Swift, dating back to 2008 when both dated Jonas Brothers members, adds a special touch to these stories. At that party, few knew they were together, prompting them to act cautiously, almost as if still figuring out how to navigate public life as a couple. Gomez described the moment as both cute and awkward, a reflection of the genuine nature of their journey.
From friendship to music: crafting “I Said I Love You First”
The shift from a personal relationship to an artistic collaboration wasn’t planned from the start. Gomez had been grappling with musical uncertainty, unsure of her next step after years away from full projects. It was Blanco who, listening to her morning confessions, began turning those talks into lyrics and melodies. The result is a 14-track album capturing the essence of their life together, from initial fears to the confidence of a shared future.
Their creative process, described by Blanco as organic, often began with him jotting down ideas as Gomez shared her feelings. Then, in the studio, those emotions came alive in songs like “Scared of Loving You” and “Sunset Blvd.” The latter pays homage to the site of their first date, a Los Angeles restaurant they later revisited to recreate a shrimp curry dish in a romantic moment shared online. Gomez credits Blanco with helping her play freely with lyrics, a highlight of the project that balances vulnerability and boldness.
For Blanco, the album is more than a collection of songs; it’s a personal diary that happens to be heard by the world. He stressed there were no initial commercial expectations, just a desire to create something meaningful for them as a couple. The inclusion of artists like Gracie Abrams in “Call Me When You Break Up” adds further depth, bringing freshness and variety to the narrative.
Timeline of an eagerly awaited release
The road to “I Said I Love You First” featured events that kept fans on edge. Here’s a rundown of key milestones:
- July 2023: Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco start dating, initially keeping it private.
- December 2024: The couple announces their engagement, with Gomez showcasing a marquise diamond ring and earning congrats from Taylor Swift.
- March 2025: Singles like “Scared of Loving You,” “Call Me When You Break Up,” and “Sunset Blvd” drop, paired with videos highlighting their chemistry.
- March 19: Gomez and Blanco make a surprise appearance in New York at a “Spring Breakers” screening, debuting “Bluest Flame.”
- March 21: The full album hits the public, marking the official launch of their collaboration.
This timeline showcases the care put into building the project, from the relationship’s early steps to delivering a work blending music and emotion.
Fan-favorite details
As the album takes shape, fans have reveled in the little moments Gomez and Blanco share about their bond. Recreating the shrimp curry dish with chef Jazz at Jitlada in Los Angeles, for instance, warmed followers’ hearts. Posted online, the video shows Gomez beaming as she tastes the food, with Blanco by her side, reinforcing how their love thrives in simple, genuine moments.
Taylor Swift’s comment on the engagement post, nearing two million likes, was another highlight. Her playful offer to be the flower girl not only underscores their friendship but also stokes curiosity about the yet-unscheduled wedding. Blanco, meanwhile, revealed in an interview that their first kiss was pivotal, a moment when he felt Gomez would be the mother of his children, melting romantic fans.
Wedding plans on hold for now
Despite the engagement buzz in December 2024, Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco aren’t rushing to the altar. In a Rolling Stone interview days before the album’s release, they said they’re savoring the present, still enchanted by the newness of their commitment. Blanco teased that Gomez reimagines their wedding daily, but both prefer taking things “one day at a time,” focusing now on “I Said I Love You First.”
Choosing to delay plans reflects their priority on the musical project. Gomez, who’d dreamed of a marquise diamond ring since “Good for You” in 2015, said she poured her engagement joy into the album, turning happiness into art. Blanco admitted he’s still amazed at how fast their bond grew, feeling the engagement happened both yesterday and 20 years ago.
Standout moments to remember
Certain points in Gomez and Blanco’s journey stand out. Here are the most memorable, per recent accounts:
- Their first kiss, which Blanco called his life’s best decision, feeling Gomez’s heart race.
- Taylor Swift’s party, where they acted like shy partners amid few who knew of their romance.
- The ring delivery, a marquise diamond Gomez proudly flaunted online.
- The collab with Gracie Abrams, who praised working with them as “a forever yes.”
These snippets show how their relationship intertwines with the music they now share globally.
A couple in perfect harmony
The chemistry between Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco extends beyond the studio and social media. During Spotify’s “Countdown To,” they traded light jabs while driving in Los Angeles, Blanco chuckling at his fiancée’s extreme punctuality and Gomez recalling their shy early outings. This dynamic, blending humor and closeness, is part of what makes them so beloved.
“I Said I Love You First” arrives as a mirror of that harmony, with lyrics exploring love’s fears and celebrating an eternal bond. For Gomez, working with Blanco rekindled her musical spark, something she couldn’t do alone after years away. Blanco sees the project as a gift that, by chance, they’re sharing with fans, without losing its core as something made for themselves.
A musical milestone rooted in love
The release of “I Said I Love You First” marks a significant chapter for both Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, blending their personal milestones with a professional triumph. For Gomez, it’s a return to music after a period of self-reflection and selective acting roles, including her acclaimed work in “Only Murders in the Building.” The album’s 14 tracks offer a mix of pop sensibilities and raw emotion, a testament to how Blanco’s production expertise complements her vocal strengths. Their decision to preview “Bluest Flame” at a New York screening of “Spring Breakers” on March 19 tied Gomez’s past cinematic ventures to her present musical evolution, delighting longtime fans.
Blanco, a seasoned producer known for hits with artists like Justin Bieber and Rihanna, brings a fresh perspective to this project by stepping into the spotlight alongside Gomez. His playful yet heartfelt approach shines through in tracks like “Sunset Blvd,” where the sultry music video amplifies the song’s romantic undertones. The couple’s ability to weave their real-life experiences into the album—such as the nervous excitement of early dates or the comfort of a shared meal—grounds the music in a way that feels both relatable and aspirational.
As they gear up for the album’s debut, Gomez and Blanco remain focused on the journey rather than the destination. Their story, now etched in song, resonates as a celebration of love’s unpredictability, proving that sometimes the best art comes from life’s unscripted moments.
